First Things First : Kita Sebagai Remaja

Assalamualaikum.

Rasanya dah berzaman tak update blog.
Stuck in writer's block i guess (though i'm not much of a writer).
So ni adalah topik yang nak cakap ni.

Kita Sebagai Remaja.

First things first lah ken, the present.
Maybe everybody is stuck in the 'interview' mood because so many teenagers look at their selves 10 years from now and hope for the best, yet we aren't really making a haste to do anything in the present.
I don't know, i could be wrong.
Teenagers, a lot is expected from us.
We are the so-called future generation (say that in an large echoing voice for a dramatic effect).
And here my point is.....

we are expected to do much more than just get married and give birth to a whole soccer team.
Oh yes, the expectations are big.
Nowadays, teenagers are too eager to get married lah, and apa lah. Slow down, okay.
Its not wrong, it certainly isn't. It's actually a pretty good thing, i consider (but maybe that's just me).
Quote my dad "Kak Long nih kalau zaman Abah, dah ada anak dua dah".
True, but things today don't work like they did back then.
They are a lot more complex, with women fighting for equal rights (i have no say on this) and stuff like that.

So, lets focus on the present okay.
Lets work hard NOW and not cloud our thoughts daydreaming of what is to become of us in the future.
Lets learn and learn and learn (kita ni kan masih muda, banyak lagi ilmu pengetahuan yang perlu dicari).
Jangan dilayan sangat perasaan cintan-cintun tu. is there a guarantee that they will last?

nanti bila dah 20-an (maybe) than, fikirlah kalau nak fikir sgt haha.
but now, belasan tahun nih, jarang ada yang berkahwin (although ada je).

Pendek je post nih.
My brain doesnt function too well when i have a fever.

ps: nanti bila dah sihat, tulis panjang2 ye. ^_^

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Who Do You Want To Be?

Assalamualaikum.

Identity is more than just a name.
It's a choice.
You are who you choose to be.


Just A Few Rules.

1. Don't let anybody tell you what to do. 

Jangan ambil kesempatan pula dengan rule yang ini. If ada kena-mengena dengan responsibility such as homework, then obviously you have to do it.
You have control over your life, just remember that.

2. Don't let anybody make you feel guilty.

Feeling guilty is not a bad thing, it actually proves that you are human. Just dont let people take advantage. People can actually manipulate you (not all people do, don't be a paranoid) into regretting some decisions you've made. Remember, what's done is done. You can say sorry, but don't let them make you 'pay' for it.

3. Do what you want to do.

Again, janganlah langgar peraturan. Just do what you feel like, when you feel like doing it. This way, you get to know yourself better.

4. Jadilah tegas dalam membuat keputusan.

Being yourself is easy but it is also hard when you are put down by others. Don't worry, people always talk. They can call you names. But it doesn't necessarily mean that it is true. People that call people names have issues with themselves, pity them and try to understand them. That way, you wont feel that bad.

5. Dekatkanlah diri dengan Allah SWT.

He is what matters in the end, right? Bila kita dekat dengan Allah, hati pun sangat tenang. Even when we make tough decisions in His name, decisions that hurt us, we feel kind of okay sebab kita tahu kita ambil keputusan itu kerana Allah SWT. Berzikirlah mengingati-Nya.

6. Treat others how you wish to be treated.

It is a golden rule. Identity isnt only about how we see ourselves, it is also how others see ourselves. So, just follow this simple rule and you can never go wrong.

7. Write down or say your goals or dreams out loud.

I like to talk to the mirror, but i'm weird, you don't have to do what i do. Make a list, recording, anything. Accept yourself for who you are. Don't let the voice inside your head say what you can or cannot do because you can do anything.

8. Be brave.

If you think what you are doing is right, big chance, it IS right. Just because someone is COOL, or POPULAR, or SMART says it is wrong, doesn't necessarily mean it is. They aren't in your shoes, you are.

9. Talk about it.

Tell friends that can encourage you and discuss the good and bad of yourself. Find someone you can trust, HONESTY IS KEY.

10. STAND UP FOR YOUR DIGNITY.

Don't let people treat you like you are some kind of bimbo (if you are a girl).
Let the world know that you are not just a person, you are a super person.
Talk up and dont shy away, as much as you can.
You are just as important as anybody else on the planet.
"Setiap makhluk Allah ada pimpinannya"

^_^ goodluck.

Not really colourful, but it's not a colourful day anyway.

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