Assalamualaikum.
Hi. Been a while.
Can't say you've been missed but your presence is much appreciated. ^-^
Can't say you've been missed but your presence is much appreciated. ^-^
This is going to be a short post. You see, i'm in my Chemistry class and i should be revising my paper. But it's Monday. (Excuse: it's Monday)
It's no strange concept, reproduction (though i personally hate the term because human reproduction makes humans sound just like another species of cow, but no matter).
As a Muslim; now i am being very stereotypical but stereotypes originate from at least a smidgen of truth, we know that when it comes to having kids, it's always better to have more. I mean, it's ONE of the main purposes of marriage.
Don't get me wrong. 10 kids sound terrific. 12? The more the merrier.
But dreams need to be realistic. And hey, i'm a dreamer so you can take my advice.
A few months ago, i read somewhere about prioritising quality over quantity. Of course, i knew this, but funnily enough, we sort of forget logical concepts when we arent reminded. When you think about it, it makes perfect sense.
If you aren't aware of it yet, i haven't finished The Ideal Muslimah. A section in the book explained how it is a woman's duty to raise good muslims. Of course, this is also a man's duty but since the book was named The Ideal Muslimah, it had no business mentioning that.
And here i stress, we are to RAISE good muslims, teach them proper values, yada yada.
Judge for yourself, 10 spiteful kids or just one kid that can change the world?
Take your pick.
Take your pick.
Let that be the rule and have as many kids as you can manage.
Don't breed like cats. Sometimes they eat their young. Which is totally besides the topic, but FUN FACT!
Don't breed like cats. Sometimes they eat their young. Which is totally besides the topic, but FUN FACT!
It's kind of like picking a husband. We don't marry just so we can check it off our list.
If that were the case, i'd be asking hunky dudes i meet on the street "hey, i dont know you and you dont know me but i want to get married so do you want to do that?".
If, however, you feel like getting on a restraining order, be my guest. We need more drama anyways.
If that were the case, i'd be asking hunky dudes i meet on the street "hey, i dont know you and you dont know me but i want to get married so do you want to do that?".
If, however, you feel like getting on a restraining order, be my guest. We need more drama anyways.
God, i'm rambling.
Back to the point.
What I mean to say is,
It's not encouraged to limit the number of kids you want.
eg: "I only want 3 kids."
But it is also not good to have too many kids that you cannot handle.
Back to the point.
What I mean to say is,
It's not encouraged to limit the number of kids you want.
eg: "I only want 3 kids."
But it is also not good to have too many kids that you cannot handle.
You're probably thinking, i'm too young to be talking about this. And i probably am.
I think about a lot of things.
Some more beneficial when shared.
Some more beneficial when shared.
Would you prefer to read about my endless fascination with dragons?
Naah. I didnt think so.
Tweedle dee tweedle dum
Assalamualaikum.
Ami
Assalamualaikum.
Ami
